My 15yr old son's erections First nudist experience Forward to friends

  • View author's info Posted on Aug 27, 2015 at 07:42 AM

    I think it is unnatural to need to masturbate to get rid of the chance of a public erection. What is more natural than an erect penis? I think those who are concerned with it are control freaks. I enjoy erections, I like to look at them, and I know others look at mine.

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  • View author's info Posted on Aug 16, 2015 at 05:34 AM

    It normal and take time to get used to nude. As when he grow will know what to do.

  • View author's info Posted on Aug 07, 2015 at 12:12 AM

    Boys & their "toys" will be randy whenever there is stimulation.  I still get "IT" at nude beaches & resorts.  I have learned to JO B4 going outside.  But, it still happens, depending on the scenery.  Seeing other nudists just makes me think of a total "group-grope".  All in, all the time.  Nudity is fun and should be enjoyed as a Naturist/Nudist.  Not a sexual thing.  He will be fine as long as you and others let him know everything is "natural; not dirty.

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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 30, 2015 at 05:46 AM

    He will get use to the nudity thing in time the erection thing will pass in time

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 13, 2015 at 05:05 PM

    My Son had the same predicament. Not a problem. I found him in some odd situation concerning his boner. It happens to every guy. DO not make a big deal of it. It will pass.


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  • View author's info Posted on Jul 13, 2015 at 12:37 AM

    He's 15. 

    Of course he's going to be erect a lot of the time.

    Those suggesting you, or his sister, 'relieve' him obviously aren't thinking about the fact that he'll expect it next time too, and the time after, and so on.

    And, to be honest, at his age he'll be hard again 10 minutes later anyway (if he softens at all.)

    Naturists expect it of boys from puberty until they learn to control it, 99% won't care providing he doesn't make a big thing (pun intended) of it himself.

    When I started to go to nudist beaches (and camps) with my schoolfriend and his dad we boys were encouraged to masturbate before we left the car, in an attempt to keep us soft in public. It worked for minutes, and to be honest nobody cared that we were stiff anyway.

    Now I would suggest buying him a tablet, get him playing some game that takes his mind off his erection, sit back and enjoy the sun without worrying about him.

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 05, 2015 at 02:07 PM

     To be honest, I think this is a family matterr. It is how you, your daughter and he feels about him getting a hard on.

    I would not encourage it, yet I would also not disscourage it.

     Also On a note I would not like to see him stroking when "young" children are close  around.  If your friends don't have a problem with his hard on why should you or anyone else. Let him enjoy his youth

  • View author's info Recommended Posted on Jun 29, 2015 at 12:13 AM




    I had the same thing happen to me. On my first time being nude, I went to the water to relaxed. It is natural.





  • View author's info Posted on Jun 23, 2015 at 09:44 AM



    That is great, good for him, shows that he has the ability to make it stand at attention.  Being that age is of course going to bring him to an errection almost all the time.  Don't put him down, rather encourage him to express himself, which it sounds like he is certainly doing.  It is great that your able to share the experience and he is ok with showing it off.  Heck, if someone doesn't like to see it, they can always close their eyes !  Always nice to see a tool doing what it is suppose to do, awesome I say !!  :)

  • View author's info Posted on Jun 07, 2015 at 07:58 AM

    Sign him up for a challenging math class and make him go do homework when it happens.  LOL


    How do you control natural hormones without harm. There are many suggestions that can work, just try some and see how it works.


    Good luck to him and you guys, he's lucky, I remember those days of easy erections - now a days, I need the boost with the blue pill - time takes its toll.

  • View author's info Posted on May 24, 2015 at 07:26 AM

    I had erections when I first started and still do and that was over 20 years ago. He will accept it all in good time and anyway its natural if there are beautiful men and women around him

  • View author's info Posted on May 18, 2015 at 04:04 PM

    I think we have addessed this, "problem"?

    He gets a hardon when seeing others naked,

    right?  So, what.  I get hard outdoors, hoping

    to meet other Naturists.  It IS OK

  • View author's info Posted on May 16, 2015 at 01:30 PM

    Try to get him used to the nudist scene with just family around him, once he gets used to it, it should go away but having an erection is just part of nature.      He is 15 so he is in the stage 

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 22, 2015 at 12:22 PM

    I can certainly relat . ol der brother first showed me how to stroke myself  off using lotion. He was always open about mygoing though puberty. My parents were very nonchalant and flirting constantlynd also wouldkeep their bedoom door openwhenevr they had sex so i sawplenty times when dad washard and mom were intimae.

     That would sometimes get meso hard i would have an uncontrolled ejaculation in my pnts if or mom would,re getting to be a man. ,made me proud and anxious so it was a healthy adolescence..and not this puritanical, hidden naughty view. When I had friends my mom would remind us to keep the door open she n

    knew we would be "exploring" without shame. So i urge you to not fear his pubescence....but treat it all asa time to learn about the pleasure nature provides ourbody so that mankind fulfills its destiny.

  • View author's info Posted on Mar 08, 2015 at 12:28 AM

    i aint surprised he gets a stiffy, seeing u naked wud do the same to me, i,ve been to nudist swimming groupsm and been in pool or showers( mixed) and the sight of a woman soaping herm self up gets any guy6 randy

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 21, 2015 at 07:37 PM



    I was going through my parents possessions a couple of years ago which brought back memories of your topic.  I came across photos taken at family get togethers and beach outings which showed my dad and myself (I was 14) sporting some wonderful woodies.  I will admit that I had more pictures of myself sporting erections that my father did and I was very proud of it.  Both my parents told me that before I get naked in public to pull myself off.  True it was not a permanent fix but it helped.  If we were at home I would have all the help I needed to take care of this.  These event brought my mother and I closer that I could ever imagine.  What ever you decide to to for your son just let him know that there is nothing wrong with him and to shoot into a tissue or something else, just not on the furniture.

  • View author's info Posted on Feb 03, 2015 at 12:23 PM

    to me its nurmal and i did the same when i was his age around my mom too you are a great looking mom so he may enjoy seeing you in the nude .im sure he is looking at you a lot too  right ?


  • View author's info Posted on Jan 23, 2015 at 08:04 AM


    If you're uncomfortable with your nudist friends seeing your sons erect cock don't be. If they're nudists they've seen nude teen boys with erections... its almost impossible not to. I would imagine your nudist friends aren't uncomfortable when your son has an erection and probably enjoy it. It's normal and natual so relax. Certainly your daughter at 20 has seen her share of erect cocks and I'd guess either pays no attention or enjoys seeing him in his state of arousal. I'm sure it's a beautiful sight. It seems he is not uncomfortable having an erection with your nudist friends and visitors and I'd guess he must be selfconfident enough to get an erection with others there.


    If you're at a nude beach and he gets an erection, again, that's pretty normal. It's happened to all us guys. And it's not just that he's 15 - I'm sure you see full grown men sporting very healthy erections in the that setting. 


    When you're at home if you enjoy masturbating him to relieve the "problem" that always helps. Of course its by no means a long lasting solution - but then again it presents lots of situations for you to become closer to your son and share an enjoyable experience with him. He's sexually awakened now and seeing your son mature into a man should be a pleasing and rewarding experience for you both.


  • View author's info Posted on Jan 15, 2015 at 03:32 AM

    At his age I was permanently erect, it's natural. My mum used to take me in hand and masturbate me, but it would be up again not long afterwards, probably because I had enjoyed her intervention. At home it wasn't really a problem, it was there and dealt with, sometimes allowed to rage for ages. My parents just looked at it as being a healthy young teenager and I think they were quite proud of what I was packing down there.


    When we were on the beach her and dad used to tell me to turn over and I always ended up rubbing it on the towel for relief, by the end of the day the towel would be stiffer than me. Dad used to get erections almost as often as me and he was over 20 year's older than me.


    At 15 you have  a real problem trying to control erections, so don't, it's natural and let's face it most  females like to see one and most take it as a compliment, that the young guy is showing his appreciation for their bodies.

  • View author's info Posted on Jan 14, 2015 at 04:16 AM

    Hi Sinthia --- With a 15-year-old boy, there's not much you can do.  When I was that age, I used to get an erection just from riding in the car; or from sitting in my seat at class - when the bell rang, you had to put your books in front of your crotch to keep everyone from seeing the way your cock was pressing out against your trousers.


    So just imagine a 15-year-old who is naked or is seeing naked girls (or boys)!  The two best bits of advice I've seen in this thread are: be open with him about it - don't shy away from the situation.  Explain to him that it's perfectly natural, that there's probably not much he can do to prevent it, and that he can be discreet about it when necessary (turning onto his stomach, covering with a towel, or slipping into the water). But most men and women will understand, have seen it all the time, and won't find it unusual.


    On the practical side, depending on how good your sexual conversation with your son is, you could suggest that he masturbate before going out w/o clothes.  That helps - at least for a short time.


    I'm afraid that having a super sexy nudist mom with a great body is not making it any easier for him.  You'll both just have to accept that he's reacting to your sexual presence.  Nothing wrong with that!

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