Well I remember when I first started hanging out at Black's Beach in San Diego. I was around 14 and I continued to battle the stiffy for a rather long 6 months. However a friend told me of a trick and so I thought I would give it a try. For me it worked. I simply put a bag of ice directly on the problem and by cooling down the area the blood began to slow down and I stopped having trouble with unwanted stiffys until they became wanted. The bottom line is that it is natural and every male has to deal with it at some point.
when at home just enjoy it. If you have guests over and they are offended you or you daughter sit on his lap to hide it. when you are out and about you or your daughter do something to relieve him before you go out.
Hi, he may never get over it, my partner, 59, has always got hard, I must admit being naked also turns me on. We are foster parents. Heidi the latest young lady, she's 14 very obviously gets extremely aroused, even my partner remarked to me one night how wet she was..
i hope we get an update on this situation. but i definitely think that masturbating him whenever he gets an erection will help. maybe your friends can help too, but being rubbed by mother and/or sister is best for him
Hi, i wonder i you guys could help with some advise on how to handle (no pun intended) a rather stiff situation.
I'm a single nudist mother with 2 kids, a daughter aged 20 and a son aged 15. My son continues to get an erection almost continuously, its ok with us at home, we're used to it, after all he is pubertal. The problem arises when we have nudist friends and visitors over or when we're out an about naked - he stays hard.... :( Can anyone give me pointers on how to help him handle the situation.... useful thoughts would be appriciated
The mindset nudist friends, visitors and others need to have is to embrace his erection by staring at and complementing it! yes I agree masturbate him off, get your daughter to help out too and while it might seem like a drastic measure to take, it really is the only way to get handle on a rather stiff situation (pun intended)!
If he's not embarrassed about it and no one minds seeing it, it probably isn't much to worry about. If it gets to the point where it's not just a random erection and he's obviously horny, then he needs to go take care of it. It's apparently not a sensitive subject, so I don't think he would care if everyone knew he was masturbating. If you're in a public spot, he can either find a bathroom or a quiet spot and quickly masturbate, 2 or 3 times if necessary. It should help take his mind off of it.
I have a 14 year old son, so my advise would be do nothing.. I asked friends who have or have had teenage boys what they did, and they said that any nudist would understand his frequent erections are just part of puberty and to not make a big deal of it. So like at home, when we are at our nude club or nude beach, when he gets an erection he just ignores it and continues what he is doing. Everyone including the other kids know it is just part of his current stage of life and doesn't need to hide it or feel embarrassed about it.
ALSO, him and I have talked about it and he knew that this would happen when he began puberty and that it was nothing to be embarrassed about especially in the nudist community.
As far as what others are saying about masturbation, though he does masturbate frequently it doesn't at all effect how frequently he gets hard, nor does masturbation always help to get rid of an erection. So please don't fall under the false assumption that your son masturbating more would help. It is a stage of life, the best thing you can do is to let it run its course, and to not make him feel that it is wrong or that he should feel embarrassed by it. I hope this helps, let us know how things are going.