I'd like to apologise to those folk who have messaged me in the "chatbox". I am not rudely ignoring you. It used to be possible to reply to paying members but now even that facility has been removed. I imagine that this must be very annoying for "gold" members.
UPDATE: I have to take back my previous statement - it now seems to be working.
It needs money to maintain a website like for staff salary, infrastructure costs so I don't begrudge paying members get extra access. Carry on administrator/moderator the good work but be progressive and move along with society behavior especially in couple relationship.