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  • View author's info Author Posted on Apr 12, 2010 at 07:19 AM


    Our son is currently entering puberty and loves to go with us to nude resorts. However we know many resorts frown on the erection, but I say cut the kid a break. My question to other parents of kids in puberty, do they lose interest in being nude with you or others? Any issues with male puberty changes in resorts and what do you suggest your sons? I know of families with daughters who had to wear swim bottoms with their first periods is that the best suggestion for them? If we don't keep kids enjoying nudism and the clubs at some point we will run out of members and new people to keep the passion alive. Thoughts on puberty and kids in nudism.
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  • View author's info Posted on Aug 01, 2019 at 01:22 PM


    To make sure that they don’t grow out of nudism introduce sex and masturbation with family and friends. It will keep them interested and everyone loves a good time.

  • View author's info Posted on Jul 26, 2019 at 09:10 AM


    My brother entered puberty and had a lot of questions, my parents answers them all, he was embarrassed by his constant erections, but when my father stopped hiding his he became less ashamed of them . 

  • View author's info Posted on May 21, 2019 at 10:04 PM


    yeah, I bet that must be hard, how old are the girls? If they are old enough they understand that men have no control about their dicks - how do you react when they shower or pee in front of you?, do you see them naked?

  • View author's info Posted on May 20, 2019 at 10:12 PM


    I am amazed by such an understanding and accepting mom.  I am glad for you and your son you have found acceptance...and that you are so understanding of your sons needs.

  • View author's info Posted on May 20, 2019 at 10:11 PM


    You are a very understanding daughter, and I admire that. I have only considered nudism and thought being a single dad with two daughters it would be hard (pun intended)

  • View author's info Posted on May 20, 2019 at 10:57 AM


    Hi Susan, would lime to talk with you about this topic and others..JAC

  • View author's info Posted on May 19, 2019 at 09:34 PM


    Susan, how have you been? 

  • View author's info Posted on May 19, 2019 at 10:01 AM


    I have a son that first started to go nude with me when he was 16.  He started at home with me and always had erections.  We went to a nude beach that is accepting of that if he doesn't play with it and try to draw attention to it.  He was more embarassed by it at first so he wasn't going to do anything to draw attention.  Eventually he got used to it and gradually things settle down.  Still happens but at that beach it is accepted.  I know at times he has gone behind the sand dunes to masturbate and that helps for a little while.

     

  • View author's info Posted on May 19, 2019 at 10:01 AM


    I have a son that first started to go nude with me when he was 16.  He started at home with me and always had erections.  We went to a nude beach that is accepting of that if he doesn't play with it and try to draw attention to it.  He was more embarassed by it at first so he wasn't going to do anything to draw attention.  Eventually he got used to it and gradually things settle down.  Still happens but at that beach it is accepted.  I know at times he has gone behind the sand dunes to masturbate and that helps for a little while.

     

  • View author's info Posted on May 17, 2019 at 05:26 AM


    My family were always nudists. so my sister and I grew up nude. When we entered puberty, we were body conscious and started wearing bikimis.It was accepted, but mum always told us, that we should at least take off the bra. when I was 15 she removed my clothes from the beach bag, so I had no choice but to be naked. at first with a towel, but after a while, I began to be more and more feel comfortable being nude again, in the evening, I stayed naked and slept naked. my sister followed my example (13). we were always nude at home, so nude at the beach was not super new, but rather the same with justvmore eyes on our breats and vags.

    however when my period is there, I always wear a thong or some pantys.

    I did see boys and men in all sorts of arousal, but never felt bad about it, it was just something that had variations. my dad was hard at home, at the beach he avoided it. but at home, he was very open about it, mum also did not hide at home or in our garden. sometimes he even masturbated... well, to be honest, I can understand him, with two girls and a woman, being naked, doing gymanastics and twister in tje nude, there was a lot to see. my sisters kids 9 /11) are also brought up naked and are taught to. massage each others or me and her parents.

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 16, 2018 at 12:32 PM


    I don't have a kid, but I can speak from my own experience.

    When I was younger I loved taking my clothes off and lucky for me I had a lot of time to play naked. However we moved to a new apartment and I didn't have as much opportunity to play naked as I used to, then around when I started puberty my brother stayed the night at friends house and before bed my mom took a bath and I realized I pretty much had the house to myself. Of course the first thing I wanted to do was play naked like I used to, but as soon as I thought of it I started to get an erection and by the time I was naked I was completely erect. I did the same things as I always did, run around and jump, because I was alone with nobody to see me I didn't care  about that I was running around with my penis standing up.

    Then because I always wanted to know what it felt like to be naked outside the closest I could try was standing by an open window with my waist below sight, I remember getting particularly excited when I waved to a couple friends that walked by knowing that I was completely naked and they had no idea. Lastly I wanted to look at my self in the mirror, I still had a cute slender body the biggest difference between the last time I posed in front of the mirror was that I had started to grow pubic hair that I thought looked good and my penis was noticably bigger. Then as I looked I noticed clear sticky stuff was leaking out of my penis but I didn't really think about it. Then I figured my mom would be getting out of the bath soon so I went to get dressed again, I laid down on my bed before I started to get dressed I was enjoying the feeling of laying in my bed naked when I started to notice a tingling sensation and my penis started twitching and I suddenly came all over my stomach I wasn't sure what happened but I cleaned myself up and got dressed,

    Afterwards I couldn't wait to get naked again so I could feel that again, even taking baths multiple times a day. If anything puberty only added to the excitement of getting naked.

     

  • View author's info Posted on Dec 10, 2018 at 07:13 AM


    I don't understand why it is a big deal... I mean, it's just a pennis. I am always nude at home with my son and daughter and yes, my son frequently has a full erection but he's a teen, it's just normal for that to happen... Or am I supposed to cover my breasts just because my nipples got hard? C'mon, cut the kid some slack

  • View author's info Posted on Nov 25, 2018 at 09:17 PM


    Have u explained the birds & the bees? Has he tried on a condom yet?

  • View author's info Posted on Nov 19, 2018 at 09:41 PM


    My son is 13 and my daughter is 14. Both have entered puberty, and both were a little body conscious at the beginning of puberty. My son has erections all the time while we are out. I tell him not to worry about it. If one happens, he should just come find me or walk to our seat. Now, he’s more comfortable with himself, and erections happen less. As for my daughter, I told her she could wear underwear when she’s on her period, but she chooses not to. She just wears a tampon our. 

  • View author's info Posted on Sep 25, 2017 at 08:02 AM


    Quoting author:

    Our son is currently entering puberty and loves to go with us to nude resorts. However we know many resorts frown on the erection, but I say cut the kid a break. My question to other parents of kids in puberty, do they lose interest in being nude with you or others? Any issues with male puberty changes in resorts and what do you suggest your sons? I know of families with daughters who had to wear swim bottoms with their first periods is that the best suggestion for them? If we don't keep kids enjoying nudism and the clubs at some point we will run out of members and new people to keep the passion alive. Thoughts on puberty and kids in nudism.

    That can be a tough nut to crack.

     

    My daughter was raised as a nudist and spent much of her preteen years naked with us at home or at the resort.  Then puberty kicked in fast and early.  She quickly went to a happy naked kid to a very self-conscious reluctant kid.  She still went nude with us as a matter of habit; but it was clear she wasn't as enthusiastic about socializing and playing naked as she once was.

    We had an open door policy at home; so when she then started closing doors to change or bathe, I was concerned.  I brought it up with my wife, who told me nudity had become a problem for her; and the only reason she still went nude was so that I wouldn't be disappointed with her.  So I decided to have a chat with her one day after we'd came home and got naked as usual.  She pretended to be comfortable sitting naked in front of me but it was quite clear she wasn't.  Looking at her I realized how much her body had changed, seemingly overnight.  She now had breasts and pubic hair; and she was quite aware of the fact that she didn't look quite the same anymore.  I told her I wouldn't be disappointed in her if she didn't want to be naked around me as much; and I could tell she was relieved.  

     

    Her Mom and I tried to find ways to get her comfortable with her changing body for a while.  But to no avail; she completely lost interest in being nude in front of other people.

     

    This scenario is fairly common with girls who develop prematurely.  My daughter had been around nudist teen girls, so she knew what to expect as she grew older.  But I think it happened for her so quickly that she just wasn't prepared for it.  I've seen other nudist girls who had less issues with puberty; often because they had close nudist girl friend or siblings they grew up with.  

     

    Oh well.

  • View author's info Posted on Oct 19, 2015 at 08:10 PM


    We started going to a local nudist resort while our kids were young.  We noticed that when our son entered puberty that he was reluctant to go with us.  We were all usually nude at home so had noticed that he got erections all the time.  My wife told me she didn't mind seeing him erect so nothing was said.  When we asked why he didn't want to go anymore he said that he was afraid of getting an erection and the other kids making fun of him.  My wife just told him if he felt one coming on to come stand behind her while she got him a towel.  He said that sounded easy so he continued going.  we never had a problem even when he was to far away and ended up wilking up with a full erection.

  • View author's info Posted on Oct 13, 2015 at 08:24 AM


    Don't know about clubs much but have found that generally on beaches erections on boys under 14 are accepted. Over that they are assumed to be able to control themselves. Although as long as they are not being obnoxious then it is tolerated. Have found that the girls (and women) wear bottoms when having a period. It's a natural part of life, just don't make them feel dirty about it.

  • View author's info Posted on Oct 11, 2015 at 04:30 PM


    My youngest boy is 9 1/2 and started puberty kinda early, he already has a small patch of pubes. I get lots of questions about it and all are understanding of it.

  • View author's info Posted on Apr 28, 2013 at 09:30 PM


    If U have a young son, under 16 y/o, and he gets a "stiffy" at a naturist resort - SO what. 
    He's Be-Cumming a man and all should understand, since they are at a Nudist Resort, OK?
    As long he is not trying to "offer it" to any one, get over it and let the boy grow "up".

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