I’m on the small side...but after spending a day or two at a nude resort I noticed there were quite a few smaller than mine. I didn’t see but one or two that stood out as big. Being around regular naked men makes you realize there are very few BIG ones outside of the porn industry.
My penis is larger than most but it's a "grower" so it actually looks tiny when at rest. And since I don't tend to get erections in nudist situations, a lot of my friends have no idea. And that's fine with me.
As somebody noted in this thread, there's always going to be somebody with a bigger dick. From charts I've seen, I'm bigger than 90-95% of guys. So on that nudist cruise a couple of years ago, there were about 1000 guys, so probably 50-100 of them had bigger penises than mine! And it didn't matter a bit because we weren't walking around hard!
Don't think snarky thoughts about that guy with an inch of dick (and, if he's like me, an inch of foreskin pucker)—he just might have more than you think!
Being a nudist means being accepting of others. If you are happy in your own body, you will find beauty in everyone elseʻs body. A cock is a cock - they all work the same, they all feel just as good with the right attention, and they can all bring pleasure to someone else. I can say from experience that women (and men) often find smaller cocks very attractive. They want to see what it looks like hard.
I agree, It’s not like boobs. You can’t go get a bigger implanted cock. Live with what you have and enjoy it. I have found most women like looking just like men. The problem comes when the husband is self conscious of being the small penis in the group. Thats where most state couples only. I am often approached by women and men who comment on my cock at the nudist camp they want to touch and ask to do more with my cock. I love it and it is what it is.
Those that are thinking about somebody being small downstairs, tend to be small upstairs between their ears. I've had plenty of "big" dudes tell me I'm small online... they do this because they are lonely and/or lacking in self esteem. It would be great to have a big wang like them, but I'd much rather be me.
The women I've been with don't seem to care... those that are size queens are not my type anyway.
Its true when they say beauty is within. The inside always make the outside attractive. Confidence is a turn on to people you want to attract to you.
You have the gift of life. Go out and LIVE. There are people that cannot get out of a hospital bed that will trade places with you any day!
3 things in life are guaranteed
3) there will always be a guy in the room with a bigger wiener. get used to it.
So...while I don't have that issue (although I think every man wishes he had more), my advice is don't worry about it. We are all natural humans and if someone is hung up on the size of your junk when they see it then they will move on. Better that than have it be a discovery after a date or something. Personally, I find it irrelevant as there are so many other aspects of a man to enjoy.
I've been to a few nudist resorts, and I noticed big dicks are more rare than you think. I am only 5-6 inches erect, I used to be self concious about it, but after going I realized that small dicks are common, and nobody else there cares. Everyone is just enjoying being naked like you should be.
I have met a few men with "small" cocks over the years. Both in public and private. Non of them had issues with their size. In public they were happy to be nude as nobody judged them. I certainly didn't judge them in private. I met them singly and in couples. They were happy to share what they had and some managed to cum more than bigger men that i have known.
I'm kinda what I think as small even erect. Yesterday after driving all night and drinking too much coffee I resided I was going to try the local clothing optional park on the lake which always use to give me a fear of going nude with a small pecked so I never went before yesterday. What helped me over come the fear of going totally nude was a girl I met on a dating site though I've yet to meet her or be with her she said she was into kink and threesomes etc... We traded some pics and talked on the phone some she told me that her and her friends have house parties and everyone just strips nude. I usually keep myself trimmed in the genital area but she told me I would feel more manly if I was clean cut, I sent many pics to her in different stages of erectness she said that you have to learn to not be self concious. And she actully told me from the pics I'm desent sized. Today however I had a serious shrinkage factor going on Iwas maybe maybe an inch and wasnt hanging pointing arrest out and my balls which usually hang low were shriveled up to must have been to much coffee. I took the words of advice and encouragement this girl gave me and as soon as I was off the parking lot I striped my underwaire off and put them in my backpack and got my phone out and took a few pics of my self and others at a distance. I just did my best to not think about my size and enjoyed my self and took a bath in the lake there were three guys I asked them to have myself taken in a picture with them but they declined I wanted to send that girl pictures of me and other nudist infront of the sighn that say nude bathing clotheing optional I want to go back tommaro because my battery died hopefully I won't be as shrunk up it didn't matter what I did I would go and jerk off in the bathroom and really couldn't even get erect but you know something I noticed is they Reilly are all and sizes
But to finnally get to my pointI just bit the bullete and stripped nude put my clothes and stuf in my back pack and walked the whole park I enjoyed seeing the women that were there and the sence of expressing myself and making my body availabe for others to see , and knowbody lagged or chuckeled or any thing. If I can make it out there in the morning I want to go all day till they close
I was really wanting to meet and join a groupthat's equally male and females