Hi, i wonder i you guys could help with some advise on how to handle (no pun intended) a rather stiff situation.
I'm a single nudist mother with 2 kids, a daughter aged 20 and a son aged 15. My son continues to get an erection almost continuously, its ok with us at home, we're used to it, after all he is pubertal. The problem arises when we have nudist friends and visitors over or when we're out an about naked - he stays hard.... :( Can anyone give me pointers on how to help him handle the situation.... useful thoughts would be appriciated
the girls really knew what they were doing on the pole and how to get everyone's attention, and they couldnt resist showing off... i suspect they also wanted to be part of everything, but each family has their own boundaries and the girls knew they had to stay out until there was a break...
Wow very lucky indeed I know for sure I wouldn’t have been able to stop myself from getting aroused or asking to see them after the party haha I’m sure they would have been more than willing considering it’s in their nature at that young of an age
Wow it must be great to know that many nudists comfortable with that type of activity! How old were the granddaughters? Perhaps they could have joined in on the action seeing as mom is experienced it must have been passed down through the family blood clearly wife is already trained well
the girls really knew what they were doing on the pole and how to get everyone's attention, and they couldnt resist showing off... i suspect they also wanted to be part of everything, but each family has their own boundaries and the girls knew they had to stay out until there was a break...
indeed... all fine examples of the casually playful encounters and fun in a truly open naked family lifestyle... all good and as it always should be, but rarely is...
turns out one of my neighbors has similar skills that she demonstrated last week soon after i arrived during a break in the action... she was fixing drinks for 10-12 folks, many still partly tangled together as they talked and recovered...
thats when two young visiting granddaughters started showing off outrageous upside down naked splits on the stripper pole and suddenly i was 'pole vaulting' over 8, but mom deftly impaled herself before anyone noticed... gasp... lol
Wow it must be great to know that many nudists comfortable with that type of activity! How old were the granddaughters? Perhaps they could have joined in on the action seeing as mom is experienced it must have been passed down through the family blood clearly wife is already trained well
ah Yes it defiantly had gone to the “next-level”. I know for sure that my wife is a keeper when she will do things like that and we both know we love each other and it was just some silly fun.
We’ll even make jokes about that happening now where the same thing happens and someone gives a cue cough and my wife will have to find some way to cover up his hard erection
indeed... all fine examples of the casually playful encounters and fun in a truly open naked family lifestyle... all good and as it always should be, but rarely is...
turns out one of my neighbors has similar skills that she demonstrated last week soon after i arrived during a break in the action... she was fixing drinks for 10-12 folks, many still partly tangled together as they talked and recovered...
thats when two visiting granddaughters started showin' off doin' outrageous upside down naked splits and other hot moves on the stripper pole... suddenly i was 'pole vaulting' and im well over 8 when im inspired, but mom deftly impaled herself on me before anyone even 'coughed', and the conversation never missed a beat... lol
yeah, yeah... that's it...! thats what i was talkin' about...! lol
okok... so maybe it wouldnt work in every social situation, but ur worthy guests obviously had a healthy sense of humor and were open ur wife's casual totally smooth resolution...
id like to think her move was also an inspiration that effectively jump-started ur party to the next level, but either way, ur son enjoyed relief instead of slinking off in shame, the party continued without missing a beat, and ur wife is definitely a keeper...!
Cheers....! and Happy New Year everyone....!
ah Yes it defiantly had gone to the “next-level”. I know for sure that my wife is a keeper when she will do things like that and we both know we love each other and it was just some silly fun.
We’ll even make jokes about that happening now where the same thing happens and someone gives a cue cough and my wife will have to find some way to cover up his hard erection
We had a situation in the living room where our friends were over and our son was on the couch and he started to get an extremely hard erection. Our guest gave a courtesy *cough* and my wife said oh that’s an issue? And got up and walked over and sat on top of him and slid him right in. We all then laughed it off and the problem was resolved!
yeah, yeah... that's it...! thats what i was talkin' about...! lol
okok... so maybe it wouldnt work in every social situation, but ur worthy guests obviously had a healthy sense of humor and were open ur wife's casual totally smooth resolution...
id like to think her move was also an inspiration that effectively jump-started ur party to the next level, but either way, ur son enjoyed relief instead of slinking off in shame, the party continued without missing a beat, and ur wife is definitely a keeper...!
We had a situation in the living room where our friends were over and our son was on the couch and he started to get an extremely hard erection. Our guest gave a courtesy *cough* and my wife said oh that’s an issue? And got up and walked over and sat on top of him and slid him right in. We all then laughed it off and the problem was resolved!
when at home just enjoy it. If you have guests over and they are offended you or you daughter sit on his lap to hide it. when you are out and about you or your daughter do something to relieve him before you go out.
lmao @ "just sit on his lap to hide it..." i understand the context, i luv the concept, and i know id enjoy watching mom or sister jumping in his lap...lol but its still real hard (pun intended) to imagine any result other than offending ur guest even more...
fortunately not everyone or every guest will be offended at the sight of such a natural young human male response... hopefully any offended guests who matter will have a healthy sense of humor, and become more open minded with the encounter...;)
I don't see anything wrong with telling an erectile-prone kid that his erections are natural; but in front of guests he is to be more discreet about it. It's just not that difficult. He can stay seated, wait for it to subside, cross his legs, etc...
It's like my daughter. When we were home by ourselves she liked to sit around spread-eagled. And that was totally ok; we all did. But in front of guests she was required to sit around more "conservatively." It was just one out of many rules like "do your homework after dinner" or "brush your teeth before going to bed." It was just: "don't sit around with your hooha wide open when we have guests." LOL! And she was fine with it. It didn't make her more confused or repressed.
most of us are on the 'same page', but shihion says it all so clearly with his fine casual style and healthy perspective...
i mean, we all like living naked, spreading our legs and pleasuring ourselves, our kids all have raging hormones, and most of us hate arbitrary rules, but many of us also have traditional friends and responsibilities we need to consider...
fortunately "its not that difficult"... when rules are based on common sense and mutual respect instead of arbitrary legislated morality, even the most 'spirited' strong-willed pre-teen daughter will likely be able to accept a family rule about the considerate flashing of her own fine sweet wide-open smiling "hooha"...lol
It would be a good idea for you or your daughter to help him release his tension by masturbating his stiff penis until he is completely drained of sperm so he won't get erections through visitors time...just make sure he is all empty and that will demand maybe 2-3 continuous ejaculations so you and your daughter can stroke him one after the other...good luck
You already posted this on this thread. You should still let him masturbate where ever he wants to in the house though instead of shaming him and sending him to a secluded spot; it creates a bad mindset.
Hi, I'm a foster mum, son 14 and daughter 12, both are fully developed, my partner and son both get erect.
I've read this post and tried most suggestions, 1st daughter masturbating son, then me masturbating him, me masturbating partner in front of them and daughter masturbating my partner in front of us.
It hasn't worked as I've caught her masturbating both of them in secret.
is there anything wrong with them being masturbated in secret? doesn't that accomplish the goal of stopping the erections? either way this seems perfectly healthy
Hi, I'm a foster mum, son 14 and daughter 12, both are fully developed, my partner and son both get erect.
I've read this post and tried most suggestions, 1st daughter masturbating son, then me masturbating him, me masturbating partner in front of them and daughter masturbating my partner in front of us.
It hasn't worked as I've caught her masturbating both of them in secret.
i'm sure it's working fine, they just need release often and if only your daughter is around then so be it
Hi, I'm a foster mum, son 14 and daughter 12, both are fully developed, my partner and son both get erect.
I've read this post and tried most suggestions, 1st daughter masturbating son, then me masturbating him, me masturbating partner in front of them and daughter masturbating my partner in front of us.
It hasn't worked as I've caught her masturbating both of them in secret.
Even though this no longer applies to you people seem to still visit this thread, it is
highly reccomeneded that you do help him with his erections or have his sister help him with it or atleast watch him and complement him on his cock. Eventually he will get used to it and de sensitive his erections when he is around you or your daughter.
EDIT
it seems you got banned or you deleted your account. just want to let the people who still visit this that masturbating your son/daughter no matter the age is definitely okay and is highly encouraged. Even if they want to stand and watch you make love with your significant other it is healthy and should be done.
definitely agree, masturbating him either yourself or with your daughter will help out a lot
Even though this no longer applies to you people seem to still visit this thread, it is
highly reccomeneded that you do help him with his erections or have his sister help him with it or atleast watch him and complement him on his cock. Eventually he will get used to it and de sensitive his erections when he is around you or your daughter.
EDIT
it seems you got banned or you deleted your account. just want to let the people who still visit this that masturbating your son/daughter no matter the age is definitely okay and is highly encouraged. Even if they want to stand and watch you make love with your significant other it is healthy and should be done.
Hi, i wonder i you guys could help with some advise on how to handle (no pun intended) a rather stiff situation.
I'm a single nudist mother with 2 kids, a daughter aged 20 and a son aged 15. My son continues to get an erection almost continuously, its ok with us at home, we're used to it, after all he is pubertal. The problem arises when we have nudist friends and visitors over or when we're out an about naked - he stays hard.... :( Can anyone give me pointers on how to help him handle the situation.... useful thoughts would be appriciated