I have always gone nude at home, so decided to take next step and go to nudist beach. I have been twice and got erections both times and left because of it. My question is do experienced nudists get offended if a guy gets an erection? Last thing I want to do is offend. Any ideas.
From the nudist women I've spoken to...they don't find natural erections upsetting. They understand that sometimes they just happen. What upsets them is when it is flaunted; or they feel that the erection is the result of looking at them.
If something pops up, just try to put the stimulus out of your mind or roll over onto your stomach until the situation subsides. You'll find with more exposure to the nudist lifestyle, the incidence of erections will probably be minimal. It's simply a matter of conditioning and not immediately associating nakedness with sex.
I also battle the erection problem sometimes. Nothing seem to work to keep it under control. I used to sneak a pair of very light running shorts underneath my cap when walking just in case. It just must look funny if you have to stop suddenly and put on your pants in the middle of nowhere...
My suggestion is that you get used to the feeling of being naked first. The feeling of the sun and the wind on your body really can get you aroused and the mere fact that you are naked is exciting isn't it?
Go to a nude beach early or on off peak times and keep a bit away from the crowd. Sit on your towel. If you are fully relaxed, stand up and look around, look at everything around you. Do not focus on the fact that you are naked. You will soon adjust to this wonderful feeling and you should soon be OK.
You can then try to walk around a bit. I always used to take my towel with me and "wear" it over your shoulder. This really makes you feel much more at ease knowing that you have a back-up. If you feel an erection coming up, sit down with part of the towel laying in your lap. Focus on the sea, the waves and the birds (the feathered kind!)
If all else fails go into the bushes where you are out of sight and masturbate yourself to ejaculation. This might take off some of the pressure. You can even masturbate a few times before you go to the beach making sure you ejaculate a few times and this will reieve most of your sexual urges for a while.
Nudists see an erection as something natural anyway. Just be discreet about it (don't flaunt it or try too hard to hide it). As you get used to the lifestyle, things will ease off and you will be able to control yourself more.
Good luck and do not let this keep you from being a regular nudist.
I have been outdoor nudist off and on over the last 10 years. I had an erection only once and that was only after some people I was with started talking about erections. They didn't complain about mine, but I did hide it because of the girls I was with. I have seen erections (including some rather amazing clitoris erections) but I don't take issue with non sexual stimulations