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Posted on Sep 13, 2017 at 04:38 PM

I started out as a single nudist.  It was hard making friends; no matter how hard I tried.  There was this sense of "caution" that emanated from other nudists when I tried to be friendly towards them.  It felt like distrust.  So I spent most of my clothes-free time alone.  It was like a vicious circle because the more I felt rejected, the more I kept to myself and didn't even try to socialize.

 

Then I met my wife, and eventually started bringing her to the resort.  She was very shy at first and kept on a sarong or a towel wrapped around her.  It was still difficult making friends. But we did eventually befriend a couple.

 

And with the couple's support and encouragement, my wife started showing more of herself.  Staying undressed for longer periods of time, getting comfortable with it.  And then she started really embracing social nudity.

And at the resort it became like light and day.  She'd started going completely naked at the resort; and people actually started going out of their way to meet us and befriend us.  Usually talking to her first.  We were invited to parties, get-togethers, etc... by other couples and families.  And I was like "wow...just wow."  These same people would have never given me the time a day as a single male nudist.  But because I now had an attractive naked companion with me, I was suddenly a "viable" nudist friend.

 

I understand first-hand the plight of the single male nudist.  It sucks.

 

 

 

 

 


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Posted on Dec 04, 2017 at 01:33 PM

you hit the nail on the head


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Posted on Sep 24, 2017 at 04:36 AM

You are so right ,it's hard being a single male nudist but it shows how fickle being a single male nudist is and why it takes a attractive partner to be noticed your stil the same person 


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