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Posted on Oct 25, 2005 at 02:56 AM

We have come to a stalemate in our relationship and are looking for ways to spice things up. Maybe some new friends and new ideas will help us along. We have been married for 20 years and look forward to at least another 20. The kids are grown up, but not out of the house yet and we just need to find the "right thing" to get us moving along down the happier trial.

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Posted on Jul 10, 2006 at 11:19 PM

I see where a couple other's replies say to get involved in swinging, that will bring you closer together. But first you need a stable relationship before even considering that. As Talkers21 said he and his "Ex" involved a single guy and at one point her sister. They had great fun and it doesn't work for everyone but worked well for them. If that's the case, why is she his "Ex"? Get away together, just the two of you to spend time without the kids, which you say the kids are grown but not out of the house yet. Depending on your finances, take a cruise, a week in Hawaii, one mentioned a vacation at a nudist resort. Go anywhere as long as it's just the two of you where you have time together to rekindle your affection for each other. It will do you both a world of good and help with the next 20, hopefully the next 40 or more years together.

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Posted on Jul 10, 2006 at 01:27 PM

I know it doesn't work for everyone, but we have found that swinging, especially soft swing, really enhances our sex life and our relationship in general. We also both enjoy nude beaches and resorts, and she claims the best orgasm she ever had was when we engaged in oral sex with each other at an on-premises swing club in Florida!

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Posted on Mar 27, 2006 at 05:42 PM

I can tell you a lot of things my wife and I use to do. We had what you could call sexual fun for almost 15 years.

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Posted on Mar 25, 2006 at 09:03 AM

how are u doing now

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Posted on Mar 22, 2006 at 11:41 PM

You know, you guys may have a great time at nudist parties. It is always easier to get in as a couple. There doesn't need to be and lots of times sex is not allowed at the nudist parties. Go find a nude beach. That can be free and fun. Just remember to be nude not lewd.

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Posted on Mar 21, 2006 at 09:46 AM


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Posted on Mar 15, 2006 at 03:12 PM

Talkers21 may use an extra person to spice up his life but I hope no one used this site to advertise for it. It's not what this site is about. I want my grandchildren to grow up thinking this is a place to find nudistfriends, period.

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Posted on Mar 11, 2006 at 11:49 AM

try to walk around naked gently stit together nude holsing hands and relax in each other arms

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Posted on Dec 13, 2005 at 04:04 AM

Become a nudist. The difference from visiting a nude vs prude resort is, that at the nude resort you are always a part of the family. The most relaxing and worry free vacation you will ever have

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Posted on Dec 10, 2005 at 03:52 PM

When my ex-wife and myself hit a stale patch we started to involve a third person in our sex life. It was great fun and because he was "clean" there was no risk of catching anything nasty. We enjoyed threesome sex for a couple of years and even involved her sister at one point. Of course, this doesn't work for all couples but we found that it worked well for us. Even just sitting down with each other and discussing the things that we could get up to was very sexy too. Hope this helps.

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Posted on Nov 27, 2005 at 09:31 AM

Hi, folks I used to have apt. rentals in Coolidge. Sold them, because of rampant drug use and turn-over. I understand what you mean about staleness. And a small town can contribute to that feeling, I'm sure. My wife and I have no small town excuse for getting stale--Tempe/Phoenix is about a large a city as we can bear. We'll be moving to a small town just north of Austin, TX in maybe 6 months. I was a happy nudist as a batchelor, but I can't seem to interest my wife in that lifestyle, socializing with naked people. Maybe that will change. I believe nudism is a healthy expression of our natural curiosity about people and our full expression of the body. Sex is fine, but that can get kinky or complex when you consider the STD's, the Harvard/Radcliff group-sharing of bodies at orgies (yes, I attended one in Berkeley in the '70's); the worry about open relations, i.e. how much sharing of partners is OK.

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