Read a profile for oneshot4774 and was rather offended at what they said about single guys, calling them "a dime a dozen." Another profile said something about "single men shouldn't bother contacting them and should go talk among themselves." Huh? Who are they to decide who we should talk to? I don't mind people saying single males needn't bother. I also understand that some single guys are a bit of a pain, but I get sick of people such as this implying that we don't have a right to exist or that we're some sort of sub-human species. And no, I did not contact them. They didn't attract me anyway.
Read a profile for oneshot4774 and was rather offended at what they said about single guys, calling them "a dime a dozen." Another profile said something about "single men shouldn't bother contacting them and should go talk among themselves." Huh? Who are they to decide who we should talk to? I don't mind people saying single males needn't bother. I also understand that some single guys are a bit of a pain, but I get sick of people such as this implying that we don't have a right to exist or that we're some sort of sub-human species. And no, I did not contact them. They didn't attract me anyway.
I guess my question is that are we talking about naturalism or sex? Yes this is a dating site, but it is also a nudist site. I read the profile in question and it seems that these guys are swingers on a nudist site, not nudists on a nudist site. Of course that is just fine.
As a divorced male, I realize that single men who are looking for sex have a harder time than single women who are just looking for sex. I don't think that is a revelation to anybody. That is just the nature of the beast. There is a biological double standard, just like other biological sexual double standards. So I don't complain about any of them.
Now as a single nudist male who is not merely looking for sex, but friends who are nudists the profile doesn't bother me at all. They are swingers looking for certain sex partners and everybody has that right. They say they are looking for friends, and if that were really true, they wouldn't arbitrarily exclude single males. There are some out there who are pretty good company.
I guess my question is that are we talking about naturalism or sex? Yes this is a dating site, but it is also a nudist site. I read the profile in question and it seems that these guys are swingers on a nudist site, not nudists on a nudist site. Of course that is just fine.
As a divorced male, I realize that single men who are looking for sex have a harder time than single women who are just looking for sex. I don't think that is a revelation to anybody. That is just the nature of the beast. There is a biological double standard, just like other biological sexual double standards. So I don't complain about any of them.
Now as a single nudist male who is not merely looking for sex, but friends who are nudists the profile doesn't bother me at all. They are swingers looking for certain sex partners and everybody has that right. They say they are looking for friends, and if that were really true, they wouldn't arbitrarily exclude single males. There are some out there who are pretty good company.
It's a date for that cocktail Emjay!! I don't argue with people's rights to go searching for single females and other couples. What really irked me is the obnoxious statement by that oneshot couple (who made it very obvious what they were looking for) that single guys should go talk among themselves. Who do they think they are? They are obviously swingers, which I have no quarrel with, but it sounded to me like they meant that single guys had no right being on this site. The funny thing is that I bet I've met more people than they have. So yes Joy, people can choose to socialize with whoever they like, but they shouldn't be telling others to basically get lost. That's my only beef. That being said, I'll have a Corona wiothout the lime!!! LOL
It's a date for that cocktail Emjay!! I don't argue with people's rights to go searching for single females and other couples. What really irked me is the obnoxious statement by that oneshot couple (who made it very obvious what they were looking for) that single guys should go talk among themselves. Who do they think they are? They are obviously swingers, which I have no quarrel with, but it sounded to me like they meant that single guys had no right being on this site. The funny thing is that I bet I've met more people than they have. So yes Joy, people can choose to socialize with whoever they like, but they shouldn't be telling others to basically get lost. That's my only beef. That being said, I'll have a Corona wiothout the lime!!! LOL
The funny thing is that single guys are often accused of just being nude for sex, but if a couple is only looking for another woman, one suspects it's for the same reason! So what's the difference?
The funny thing is that single guys are often accused of just being nude for sex, but if a couple is only looking for another woman, one suspects it's for the same reason! So what's the difference?
I checked out the oneshot profile and felt more sorry for them than anyone included in this blog. However, I was moved to forward the following comment to them: "I don't meet any of your stipulations and I don't wish to establish, or maintain, contact. However, I note that the one comment you have is from a couple who have their faces blacked out. How strange of you to share this with us!"
I checked out the oneshot profile and felt more sorry for them than anyone included in this blog. However, I was moved to forward the following comment to them:
"I don't meet any of your stipulations and I don't wish to establish, or maintain, contact. However, I note that the one comment you have is from a couple who have their faces blacked out. How strange of you to share this with us!"
flesh, I understandas probably many other male nudist do to. I don't see how all male nudist can be blamed or judge for what others do. At the same time whether males are nudist or not, males are always paying try have enjoy the same places of fun and relaxation as couples or single females. I will prove this point, for instance who do think is paying the entry fees or cover charges at the clubs/night clubs/resorts? Males are the ones paying for the cover charge, the alcohol, and the food (if there is any at that particular place). The females have ladies night and yes I know that it's to draw in the ladies to be there, but then again who do the ladies want to hook up with? Other ladies and couples, so what's the point of that? Not to mention the some nudist places don't even allow single males or if they do, then we have pay a high price to try and enjoy ourselves of which discourages me and the females don't to pay as high price and are accepted a heck of alot easier than males. Now with that being said I know that some people are really wanting to tell me that the males are more interested in sex than females and I have to throw in the bull s**t flag, because females are just as horny as males. Granted males show it more, but this is still bull s**t. I would really perfer it to be equal all the way around in stead of this one sided crap. It maybe just me, I don't know, but that's how I feel and think about this whole idea.
flesh, I understandas probably many other male nudist do to. I don't see how all male nudist can be blamed or judge for what others do. At the same time whether males are nudist or not, males are always paying try have enjoy the same places of fun and relaxation as couples or single females. I will prove this point, for instance who do think is paying the entry fees or cover charges at the clubs/night clubs/resorts? Males are the ones paying for the cover charge, the alcohol, and the food (if there is any at that particular place). The females have ladies night and yes I know that it's to draw in the ladies to be there, but then again who do the ladies want to hook up with? Other ladies and couples, so what's the point of that? Not to mention the some nudist places don't even allow single males or if they do, then we have pay a high price to try and enjoy ourselves of which discourages me and the females don't to pay as high price and are accepted a heck of alot easier than males. Now with that being said I know that some people are really wanting to tell me that the males are more interested in sex than females and I have to throw in the bull s**t flag, because females are just as horny as males. Granted males show it more, but this is still bull s**t. I would really perfer it to be equal all the way around in stead of this one sided crap. It maybe just me, I don't know, but that's how I feel and think about this whole idea.
Was married now no choice now,So why put all single guys in the same box!.Each person is different so you can decide by talking to them first and then make a judgment?.
Was married now no choice now,So why put all single guys in the same box!.Each person is different so you can decide by talking to them first and then make a judgment?.
i guess its because they're jeolous that you can mingle freely without feeling guilty while they can only watch,and if you look good for your age,that would make it a bigger problem for you considering the physique of some of these guys who don't take care of themselves.
i guess its because they're jeolous that you can mingle freely
without feeling guilty while they can only watch,and if you look good for your age,that would make it a bigger problem for you considering the physique of some of these guys who don't take care of themselves.
Karen, right back atcha hun. That's more important to me than the negative connations of some people. And that bare hug I'm waiting for will make it even more special!
Karen, right back atcha hun. That's more important to me than the negative connations of some people. And that bare hug I'm waiting for will make it even more special!
yes it can be frustrating being a single male, but you also have to think that couples and females may have had a bad experience with single males. couples may also feel threatened by us. having recently been lucky enough to prove im genuine and able to speak with the mentioned they are just fed up with non genuine people and one simple fact, not reading the profile. most are approachable as long as you are friendly and chat at a normal level.
yes it can be frustrating being a single male, but you also have to think that couples and females may have had a bad experience with single males. couples may also feel threatened by us. having recently been lucky enough to prove im genuine and able to speak with the mentioned they are just fed up with non genuine people and one simple fact, not reading the profile. most are approachable as long as you are friendly and chat at a normal level.
Judging by their photos, I think some of these people were swingers, which is, of course, their choice. It's also their choice if they only want to chat with couples and women. I understand that, but to be told to only go and chat with other single men? I don't think so! Argh, can't imagine talking to Mustangbear or Scott2bare (or whatever he's calling himself these days!). What would life be like on this site without Nikki, Karen, Susan and Leah, four of the special nude ladies on this site? To think that some dictatorial couples would try to stop me from chatting from these sweeties!!!
Judging by their photos, I think some of these people were swingers, which is, of course, their choice. It's also their choice if they only want to chat with couples and women. I understand that, but to be told to only go and chat with other single men? I don't think so! Argh, can't imagine talking to Mustangbear or Scott2bare (or whatever he's calling himself these days!). What would life be like on this site without Nikki, Karen, Susan and Leah, four of the special nude ladies on this site? To think that some dictatorial couples would try to stop me from chatting from these sweeties!!!
Their loss mate, you're great to chat with. As are a lot of the single guys on here. But you and I both know how some of the guys on here come across, obviously this couple just don't have the tolerance of the rest of us.
Their loss mate, you're great to chat with. As are a lot of the single guys on here. But you and I both know how some of the guys on here come across, obviously this couple just don't have the tolerance of the rest of us.
I think that most people accept that 'Single Males' come in all sorts of 'Shapes, sizes backgrounds and sexual preferences and motivation. At the same time the people that are not categorised as 'Single Males' all have their prejudices real or imagined. The Male part of a couple can feel threatened by a 'S M' Likewise the female part of a couple can feel at risk from a 'S.F' If you are entertaining for a meal the 'spare' S.M or S.F' can make the group unbalanced' as rest are in pairs. The male who seems 'Normal' whatever that is, might be 'Bi or Gay' We all have our often hidden ideas of who we like to be with. At one club we visited in the UK they had a 'No Singles Rule' A lady whose husband had died part way through the summer was told that at the end of the season she would have to leave the club - and of course all her naturist friends. How barbaric is that. Our own experience of particularly Single Males is coloured by our use of Holkum Beach in Norfolk U.K. Here you have SOME single males 'Playing' with their friends in the Dunes, using Binoculars, Cameras with Telephoto lens to view the families and couples on the edge of the dunes or on the beach. They are referred to as the 'Meercats' and certainly put off the 'traditional naturist/nudist from using this beach. How do you categorise the 'Single Male' who is in fact 'Married' Just read the profiles of Single Males Young and Old and it shows how prejedices build up P.S Have been a Single Male so know the problems they face. Brian and Susan East Anglia U.K
I think that most people accept that 'Single Males' come in all sorts of 'Shapes, sizes backgrounds and sexual preferences and motivation. At the same time the people that are not categorised as 'Single Males' all have their prejudices real or imagined. The Male part of a couple can feel threatened by a 'S M' Likewise the female part of a couple can feel at risk from a 'S.F' If you are entertaining for a meal the 'spare' S.M or S.F' can make the group unbalanced' as rest are in pairs.
The male who seems 'Normal' whatever that is, might be 'Bi or Gay' We all have our often hidden ideas of who we like to be with. At one club we visited in the UK they had a 'No Singles Rule' A lady whose husband had died part way through the summer was told that at the end of the season she would have to leave the club - and of course all her naturist friends. How barbaric is that.
Our own experience of particularly Single Males is coloured by our use of Holkum Beach in Norfolk U.K. Here you have SOME single males 'Playing' with their friends in the Dunes, using Binoculars, Cameras with Telephoto lens to view the families and couples on the edge of the dunes or on the beach. They are referred to as the 'Meercats' and certainly put off the 'traditional naturist/nudist from using this beach. How do you categorise the 'Single Male' who is in fact 'Married' Just read the profiles of Single Males Young and Old and it shows how prejedices build up
P.S Have been a Single Male so know the problems they face.
Brian and Susan East Anglia U.K
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