Quoting raisun08:

I had hopes of finding people like myself that enjoyed the naturist lifestyle when I joined this site, however, they seem to be few and far between. With one exception, most of the hits on my profile seem to be men looking for gay sex, which I have no interest in, and if I did, it would not be on this site anyway. If my profile somehow indicates otherwise, I will change it. Yes, I would like to be friends with women, couples, or even other men if their interest is to further a naturist lifestyle, and if geographically close, to maybe meet and pursue similar interests besides naturism. See profile for information.  Having said that, I find pictures of men with full or even partial erections a real turn-off and to those who say it is a natural state, I can only say that I have never seen one in a naturist resort setting in a social gathering. Not to pick only on men, there are a few pictures of women showing themselves in poses more appropriate to one of the sex-sites, which only re-enforces the perception of nudism and sexual activity being connected. I would hope that the site moderators could be more selective in their picture approval process, one that will result in a better portrayal of naturists and our lifestyle. To those of you looking for a sex-connection, please visit one of the other, more suitable sites.

We must not speak falsely now, the hour grows short.

Quoting brianp1553:

Sexual Approaches, perhaps it is due to the internet that as it is so easy to make an approach of any type - Non Sexual or Sexual that folks of all sexual orientations get these 'offers' from sexual opportunists. We wonder if they would make a 1st approach of this kind if it was face to face/
Some persons that like to call themselves nudists or naturists just use it as a way of 'opening doors' so they can chance their arms. As an older couple, we have even had our share of 'Sex Pests' one at least is a member or NF, but then he appears on maybe a dozen sites seeking 'all sorts' of activities with persons of all gender preferences and ages.

Sexual Approaches, perhaps it is due to the internet that as it is so easy to make an approach of any type - Non Sexual or Sexual that folks of all sexual orientations get these 'offers' from sexual opportunists. We wonder if they would make a 1st approach of this kind if it was face to face/
Some persons that like to call themselves nudists or naturists just use it as a way of 'opening doors' so they can chance their arms. As an older couple, we have even had our share of 'Sex Pests' one at least is a member or NF, but then he appears on maybe a dozen sites seeking 'all sorts' of activities with persons of all gender preferences and ages.

Quoting Southnude:

Lovely photos. You both seem a very happy couple
Regards Tom

Lovely photos. You both seem a very happy couple
Regards Tom

Quoting rtt74jr:

I also agree with everyone here. I left the last nudist website for that very reason - I am NOT looking for a sexual relationship of any kind. I'm a happy legally MARRIED gay man who just so happens to enjoy most of my free time sans clothing. I clearly state this in my profile yet I've had several men make awkward sexual advances towards me. And like it was mentioned on this thread I have attend several nudist social gatherings where I didn't notice one male including myself with a partial or full on erection. I don't understand why it's so difficult to find people to just hang out with in a nude social setting with no sexual pretense in the air.

I also agree with everyone here. I left the last nudist website for that very reason - I am NOT looking for a sexual relationship of any kind. I'm a happy legally MARRIED gay man who just so happens to enjoy most of my free time sans clothing. I clearly state this in my profile yet I've had several men make awkward sexual advances towards me. And like it was mentioned on this thread I have attend several nudist social gatherings where I didn't notice one male including myself with a partial or full on erection. I don't understand why it's so difficult to find people to just hang out with in a nude social setting with no sexual pretense in the air.

Quoting brianp1553:

Again, what is said about MANY of the users of the site is so correct. The problem is far from unique with N.F, we had an excellent U.K based site that lists Gender which includes ALL sexual bias and preferences. It also lists most recent members and you are able to quickly see their 'interests'. So many are just crusing for sexual opportunities and kicks; be it photo swapping or actual sexual meets. It all takes time to filter out those that have sexual agendas.
I must have been incredibly lucky to have found Susan on NF back in July 2006, she moved up to be with me in Feb/March 2007 and is still here!

Again, what is said about MANY of the users of the site is so correct. The problem is far from unique with N.F, we had an excellent U.K based site that lists Gender which includes ALL sexual bias and preferences. It also lists most recent members and you are able to quickly see their 'interests'. So many are just crusing for sexual opportunities and kicks; be it photo swapping or actual sexual meets. It all takes time to filter out those that have sexual agendas.
I must have been incredibly lucky to have found Susan on NF back in July 2006, she moved up to be with me in Feb/March 2007 and is still here!

Quoting gentelman51:

Agree 100%, however, the hits on our prifile from men could be the search engine used here? I have several hundred from men and assuming thet are not all gay the search program might need sone tunning. I hope so anyway!!

Agree 100%, however, the hits on our prifile from men could be the search engine used here? I have several hundred from men and assuming thet are not all gay the search program might need sone tunning. I hope so anyway!!