That folks can not be more honest. You come across all sorts of people on Naturist/Nudist web sites. Some use sites just to get sexual opportunities. others to expand their social naturist contacts without sexual activity being on the menu. We came across one old fella that lives in the same general area as us in the UK, he appears on maybe a dozen sites; on some he professes his naturist creditials or others he is proclaiming his wide range of sexual interests. The current interest he has, is quite definatly 'hands on', he is training to be a massuse and is at the stage of taking his practical tests. The problem he is facing is that he is prone to ere****ns while working on someone elses body. We will not be offering to be one of his subjects for his practical tests. You might get a message from someone who appears to share your own interests, then days or even weeks down the time line, you start to discover that your agendas and interests are quite different from theirs. So the shame is, so much valuable time wasted that could have been saved if folks had been more open and honest at the start of communications.
That folks can not be more honest. You come across all sorts of people on Naturist/Nudist web sites. Some use sites just to get sexual opportunities. others to expand their social naturist contacts without sexual activity being on the menu. We came across one old fella that lives in the same general area as us in the UK, he appears on maybe a dozen sites; on some he professes his naturist creditials or others he is proclaiming his wide range of sexual interests. The current interest he has, is quite definatly 'hands on', he is training to be a massuse and is at the stage of taking his practical tests. The problem he is facing is that he is prone to ere****ns while working on someone elses body. We will not be offering to be one of his subjects for his practical tests. You might get a message from someone who appears to share your own interests, then days or even weeks down the time line, you start to discover that your agendas and interests are quite different from theirs. So the shame is, so much valuable time wasted that could have been saved if folks had been more open and honest at the start of communications.
It can be slightly entertaining to see and hear those with sex on their minds as they try to 'test the water' by trying to push the limits, as they work on their own agenda. When in a face to face meeting with one that is obviously a 'Chancer', Susan and I have been known to work together to question THEM and put them verbally through the rack, then totally destroy them before they are sent packing
It can be slightly entertaining to see and hear those with sex on their minds as they try to 'test the water' by trying to push the limits, as they work on their own agenda. When in a face to face meeting with one that is obviously a 'Chancer', Susan and I have been known to work together to question THEM and put them verbally through the rack, then totally destroy them before they are sent packing
Yes it is a shame. They often show their true colours in chat too, especially if they are chatting to Clair. It all starts off pleasant enough but all too often we can see where the questions or comments are leading.
Best wishes to you
Andy and Clair
Hello Bryan and Susan,
Yes it is a shame. They often show their true colours in chat too, especially if they are chatting to Clair. It all starts off pleasant enough but all too often we can see where the questions or comments are leading.
As time goes by, you find out all sorts of things about people. When you put your profile, whatever version it is on the Internet, you have to accept that it will remain there, to be accessed by all as they do their searches; this, even if you try to delete it from some sites. The male we used as an example, has turmed up on yet more 'Extreeme' sites as he seeks sexual activity. Yet he professes to be a naturist and in fact he runs his own 'Naturist' web sites here in the U.K. The pity is that you can be judged guilty of some 'quirk or perversion' by association with that person. Hence when perhaps the Police go though that persons Hard Drive and they see your connection as a named 'Friend or Buddy' you get investigated as well, even if totally innocent of any offence.
As time goes by, you find out all sorts of things about people. When you put your profile, whatever version it is on the Internet, you have to accept that it will remain there, to be accessed by all as they do their searches; this, even if you try to delete it from some sites. The male we used as an example, has turmed up on yet more 'Extreeme' sites as he seeks sexual activity. Yet he professes to be a naturist and in fact he runs his own 'Naturist' web sites here in the U.K. The pity is that you can be judged guilty of some 'quirk or perversion' by association with that person. Hence when perhaps the Police go though that persons Hard Drive and they see your connection as a named 'Friend or Buddy' you get investigated as well, even if totally innocent of any offence.
One of the local to me sites went from a family friendly naturist site to a (primarily) gay male hook up site within the span of a month. Another vanished off the face of the earth as though it never existed. I'm in the process of forming a formal local (Memphis TN area) naturists group.
We have 54 acres. Roughly 20 of those are clothing optional. We've even offered to host no charge naturist get togethers at our 2 acre stocked pond.
We've had exactly 2 local actual naturists respond, the rest have been swingers or pedophiles. And neither of the locals has been able to drop by. Maybe when winter is over, it has been a chilly 73*F here the last 3 days...
One of the local to me sites went from a family friendly naturist site to a (primarily) gay male hook up site within the span of a month. Another vanished off the face of the earth as though it never existed. I'm in the process of forming a formal local (Memphis TN area) naturists group.
We have 54 acres. Roughly 20 of those are clothing optional. We've even offered to host no charge naturist get togethers at our 2 acre stocked pond.
We've had exactly 2 local actual naturists respond, the rest have been swingers or pedophiles. And neither of the locals has been able to drop by. Maybe when winter is over, it has been a chilly 73*F here the last 3 days...
This is the first time I reply to a blog. Don' t know much about them. Just to let you know, wer're not all phonies. I certainly am not. I paid to be a member on this site and for those jokers out there that get their jollies mocking nudists, YOU HAVE TOTALLY NO IDEA what you're missing out on.
Those that react like that are showing what a soft easy to manipulate mind they have since they base their belief and views of nudisum on the media and what their mom, dad and friends tell them or just society in general that it's dirty, a "Must not"
They assume right away that it's all about sex and orgies and that nudists are weird (just because nudism doesn't fall into their definition of what's "normal") Think about it, what's the first thing that pops in the soft mind of the average citizen or friend if you mention you went to a nude activity...oh my God is the first reaction and they assume there's sex involved or if you're a guy, that you go there only to view the ladies. (I can do that in a strip bar if I want, seen it so many times, boring)
And so you show that you've been manipulated and you base your opinion with lack of knowledge.
Of course I was a little uncomfortable the first day but by the time that day was done, I was so well treated that I totally enjoyed being outside naked and went home that day with the "I can't believe I did this" feeling and it was something I always wanted to try.
I now have no problem being in a group or being seen nude. Means totally nothing to me, not afraid of it, and I've noticed any nude group doesn't really see you.
They've seen nude people so often, they have eyes to see but don't see.
Didn't matter if they were fat or not. If you're one of those that read this and want to mock it without first knowing what it's about or what it's like..well all I can say is time is against you, you will one day die without knowing how much fun it is and how NON sexual it is and so it's your loss then.
This is the first time I reply to a blog. Don' t know much about them. Just to let you know, wer're not all phonies. I certainly am not. I paid to be a member on this site and for those jokers out there that get their jollies mocking nudists, YOU HAVE TOTALLY NO IDEA what you're missing out on.
Those that react like that are showing what a soft easy to manipulate mind they have since they base their belief and views of nudisum on the media and what their mom, dad and friends tell them or just society in general that it's dirty, a "Must not"
They assume right away that it's all about sex and orgies and that nudists are weird (just because nudism doesn't fall into their definition of what's "normal") Think about it, what's the first thing that pops in the soft mind of the average citizen or friend if you mention you went to a nude activity...oh my God is the first reaction and they assume there's sex involved or if you're a guy, that you go there only to view the ladies. (I can do that in a strip bar if I want, seen it so many times, boring)
And so you show that you've been manipulated and you base your opinion with lack of knowledge.
Of course I was a little uncomfortable the first day but by the time that day was done, I was so well treated that I totally enjoyed being outside naked and went home that day with the "I can't believe I did this" feeling and it was something I always wanted to try.
I now have no problem being in a group or being seen nude. Means totally nothing to me, not afraid of it, and I've noticed any nude group doesn't really see you.
They've seen nude people so often, they have eyes to see but don't see.
Didn't matter if they were fat or not. If you're one of those that read this and want to mock it without first knowing what it's about or what it's like..well all I can say is time is against you, you will one day die without knowing how much fun it is and how NON sexual it is and so it's your loss then.
I certainly agree... I have noticed how people are not honest on there profile.. On the chat line they'll be under the female symbol, but it turns out there and old saggy guy ... looks like it's more of a joke for them miss-representing themselves.. Who really wants to talk to a dis-honest "old man"? Who pretends to be a female... And many want to chat with you but they don't want to reveal themselves.. They have no photo's.. I say the hell with all of you who are here for whatever intent is not worth talking about... So Bryan I agree totally on your point of view! People complain about the lack of women on here... Well the selection of men is pretty slim as well...As for me Bryan, it maybe awhile before I get back on here on a daily basis.. Work is kicking my rear-end... (lol)
Thanks for posing the blog J. Y.
I certainly agree... I have noticed how people are not honest on there profile.. On the chat line they'll be under the female symbol, but it turns out there and old saggy guy ... looks like it's more of a joke for them miss-representing themselves.. Who really wants to talk to a dis-honest "old man"? Who pretends to be a female... And many want to chat with you but they don't want to reveal themselves.. They have no photo's.. I say the hell with all of you who are here for whatever intent is not worth talking about... So Bryan I agree totally on your point of view! People complain about the lack of women on here... Well the selection of men is pretty slim as well...As for me Bryan, it maybe awhile before I get back on here on a daily basis.. Work is kicking my rear-end... (lol)
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